"I didnt realize the sensitivity many disabled divers have to being different from other divers until this project. This prompted us to eliminate the ladder entirely so all divers ride the lift while seated. Able-bodied divers have the option to jump off the stern or ride the lift up while standing but we made it a good place to finish gearing up and relax if their buddy isnt quite ready. We only carry six divers so the speed to get in the water isnt much of an issue."
Akimbo, I can tell you that I'm very reluctant to ask for extra help or different procedures, especially while diving. I think some of that comes from having a husband who has not fully come to terms with having a wife who is not as strong as I once was. He had a hard time at first, with me using wheelchair or crutches when we would go out to eat or shopping. I also don't want to worry the boat crew, who may then think that I'm not capable underwater, too. I think this is probably more common than most people realize. My husband is getting used to the idea of me needing help but its not easy for me to ask, especially around strangers. I don't even use the handicap parking on good days, feeling that others more "handicapped" than me should be given the space.
Plus, I've always been strong and capable. I had the highest female score on the PT test during Officer Training School, ran cross-country. i also fox-hunted, which, on an off-the-track horse, takes tremendous strength. To now need extra help with simple things like grocery shopping and chores, it's really hard. It's probably one of the hardest parts of having a disability, for me, anyway. It took me nearly two months of struggling at work, going through severe pain towards the end of the day, before I finally told them that I couldn't stand or walk between exam rooms anymore. It was a simple fix, sit-down and have patients come to you. Yet, it took me that long to finally admit I couldn't do it the " normal" way anymore.
I'm really doing a lot of research on how I can continue towards my cave/technical diving dream. I know that I'll be able to manage recreational diving, one way or another. I can easily manage donning/doffing gear in the water, though that doesn't thrill me in rough water with a drysuit, since I always seem to get caught my shoulder strap caught on my valve. I'm planning to practice a lot of donning/doffing in the water with my drysuit this winter, once I'm done recuperating from my second surgery, which is scheduled for next week. A back roll into the water and just removing the gear for exit is another possibility, at least on many boats. That would allow me to enter water without having to stand up and walk with a tank on my back.
But, tech/cave diving, with all the heavy equipment, will take some extra planning. Having dove in some pretty rough surface conditions, I don't think I would want to gear up in the water with doubles. A boat like the one you're talking about could make all the difference. Will they allow tech diving or at least practicing with tech gear in shallower waters? If you could, please PM me some details. I'm pretty excited about this, really.
I'm really looking forward to getting back in the water. We were just talking about a short, "shake-down" trip to Catalina near Christmas, to ready me for a trip with Truth Aquatics in January.