Hemlon
Contributor
I am a proud Swamper because I genuinely like some of the other Swampers and I find the happy hours to be fun.
But when it comes to diving, like Texdiveguy, I am just as content to dive solo. I don't EVER want to have to feel compelled to buddy up with someone that I wouldn't normally dive with just because we are in a "dive club". There are some people that I just don't enjoy being around. If I don't like them on the surface, the chances are pretty good that I won't like them under the surface either.
Of course, that has come up when I've been on paid dive trips. I have never had an issue saying no if I'm paying my hard-earned money. Plus, when in (fill in the foreign dive site of choice name) the chances are good that I won't ever see that person again. In that case, I really don't care if my refusal to buddy up hurts their feelings. But saying no to a safe-diver-but-objectionable-personality person that I will potentially see month after month is a bit more difficult.
Second point: The dive clubs that I have seen always turn into proverbial pissing contests. (Note: This has been known to happen at non-diving happy hours...but of course, in THAT case, there is always cold beer to off-set the bad conversation.)
But when it comes to diving, like Texdiveguy, I am just as content to dive solo. I don't EVER want to have to feel compelled to buddy up with someone that I wouldn't normally dive with just because we are in a "dive club". There are some people that I just don't enjoy being around. If I don't like them on the surface, the chances are pretty good that I won't like them under the surface either.
Of course, that has come up when I've been on paid dive trips. I have never had an issue saying no if I'm paying my hard-earned money. Plus, when in (fill in the foreign dive site of choice name) the chances are good that I won't ever see that person again. In that case, I really don't care if my refusal to buddy up hurts their feelings. But saying no to a safe-diver-but-objectionable-personality person that I will potentially see month after month is a bit more difficult.
Second point: The dive clubs that I have seen always turn into proverbial pissing contests. (Note: This has been known to happen at non-diving happy hours...but of course, in THAT case, there is always cold beer to off-set the bad conversation.)