Well I've completed my OW certification with this instructor and we ended up doing all the drills. He waited until open water to complete some of them. For instance- full flood mask, removal, and replacement was done on dive 4.
Here's what I've concluded about the experience, but I have yet to act on it because I want to do it tactfully and gracefully and i'm still trying to decide how to do it. I need some input.
The man knows his stuff. He is a science and chemistry wiz and an ex almost seal who broke his foot during hell week. He's got the qualifications. He keeps an eye on you at all times.
However, I've never seen a man lack more emotional intelligence than this man. The instructor is about 60 years old and can't control his mouth, especially around the ladies. He still believes he can beat up anyone who challenges him and You can't tell the man anything about what you think because he thinks it's stupid. (Never mind he might end up saying the exact same thing you've said later on; because you said it, it doesn't count.)
At my pleading request, my wife came with me to start her open water dive 1 and decided against it after she realized this guy just lacked every social skill in the book. She felt very uncomfortable around him because of how rough his "put-on" demeanor was followed by his sudden flirtatiousness with my wife. He was defiantly one of two extremes.
I found out later that a lot of his female trainees end up getting referrals, something my wife is doing as well.
How should I proceed in this? You can't tell the man anything. He's complete unapproachable.