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At the risk of getting attacked for answering (it happened last time I joined one of these talks, and led to the attecker getting banned), here goes.
Like a lot of those who have already posted I do not hide my status per say. If asked, I am honest, but I don't usually go out of my way to announce it.
If I am asked to buddy with someone on a boat where I am just having fun then I will ask to be paid. Like a lot of others have said this usually fixes the problem. There are some exceptions to this rule. There are two local boats where if they ask I will help out. That is because I am friends with the owners, and they comp me trips when I help.
If I see a potential problem that I can help with I will offer my help. It does not matter if I am diving local, or on vacation. A couple of years ago my wife and I were in Curacao. During a dive I saw another diver (who I didn't know) whose tank had come out of his cam band. I handed my wife my camera, and helped get his tank back in place. Until I swam up to him he didn't even know it was out. I then went back to my dive with my wife.
It was a simple thing to do, but it might have prevented a worse problem.
Over an hour later my wife and I got back to shore at the end of the dive. The diver I had helped had waited to thank me. He was a new diver, and none of his buddies knew what to do. I did not expect this, but it made an impression on me. Here was someone with a lot of class and manors.
Now, here's what got me flamed before. If I am on a fun dive, I am shooting pictures. What really gets me is when a dive op tells some diver to follow me as I am a DM, but does not even let me know they are doing this. I end up with a buddy that I didn't even know was my buddy. This has happened to me before, and it really P.O.'s me. The "buddy" usually ends up messing up my shots, so I end up trying to lose them. I assume that they just want to see what I am shooting not knowing that they are "with" me.
If I am asked, and I agree, then I don't mind taking along other divers. But don't just assume, and leech them on to me without asking first.
Like a lot of those who have already posted I do not hide my status per say. If asked, I am honest, but I don't usually go out of my way to announce it.
If I am asked to buddy with someone on a boat where I am just having fun then I will ask to be paid. Like a lot of others have said this usually fixes the problem. There are some exceptions to this rule. There are two local boats where if they ask I will help out. That is because I am friends with the owners, and they comp me trips when I help.
If I see a potential problem that I can help with I will offer my help. It does not matter if I am diving local, or on vacation. A couple of years ago my wife and I were in Curacao. During a dive I saw another diver (who I didn't know) whose tank had come out of his cam band. I handed my wife my camera, and helped get his tank back in place. Until I swam up to him he didn't even know it was out. I then went back to my dive with my wife.
It was a simple thing to do, but it might have prevented a worse problem.
Over an hour later my wife and I got back to shore at the end of the dive. The diver I had helped had waited to thank me. He was a new diver, and none of his buddies knew what to do. I did not expect this, but it made an impression on me. Here was someone with a lot of class and manors.
Now, here's what got me flamed before. If I am on a fun dive, I am shooting pictures. What really gets me is when a dive op tells some diver to follow me as I am a DM, but does not even let me know they are doing this. I end up with a buddy that I didn't even know was my buddy. This has happened to me before, and it really P.O.'s me. The "buddy" usually ends up messing up my shots, so I end up trying to lose them. I assume that they just want to see what I am shooting not knowing that they are "with" me.
If I am asked, and I agree, then I don't mind taking along other divers. But don't just assume, and leech them on to me without asking first.