fresh_fish
Contributor
My husband and I are opposite of what you are talking about. Helping the woman, psh! I have more dives than him currently, only because I went diving with some friends, and he did not. He did some diving without me as well, just not as much.
We went through the training together, and our dive shop/instructor was all about DIY. You haul your gear, or don't dive. You set up your gear, or don't dive. Now that we're certified, we can help each other as much as we want, but it's habit. I set mine up, he does his, and we buddy check. When we dive together, it's all about taking turns. He points to something he wants to see, then I follow him there and we both check it out. Then, I point, he follows, etc. It works well.
We went through the training together, and our dive shop/instructor was all about DIY. You haul your gear, or don't dive. You set up your gear, or don't dive. Now that we're certified, we can help each other as much as we want, but it's habit. I set mine up, he does his, and we buddy check. When we dive together, it's all about taking turns. He points to something he wants to see, then I follow him there and we both check it out. Then, I point, he follows, etc. It works well.