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Diving with unfamiliar local strangers?

Discussion in 'Basic Scuba Discussions' started by northernone, Nov 4, 2018.

I'd impromptu dive with a similar stranger?

  1. Without hesitation if we hit it off

    61 vote(s)
    65.6%
  2. Perhaps but would feel inconvenienced

    12 vote(s)
    12.9%
  3. Would if they are desperate but it would spoil my dive

    4 vote(s)
    4.3%
  4. Won't dive willingly with unfamiliar divers

    11 vote(s)
    11.8%
  5. Other, described below.

    13 vote(s)
    14.0%
Multiple votes are allowed.
  1. northernone

    northernone IDC Staff Instructor Staff Member

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    Was thinking about our attitudes and preferences to the social aspect of diving. Here's a scenario occasionally I meet with.

    If you turn up to your favorite dive site and find a solo diver there gearing up and hoping to have someone in the water with them as a buddy how likely would you be to offer to join them?

    (If they have a similar dive plan and dive style and you like them.)
     
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  2. Bowers

    Bowers Nassau Grouper

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    I will gladly make somebodies day if they need a dive buddy. BUT i know and trust my buddy and can relax during the dive, whereas a last minute unknown add on always makes it harder to relax and enjoy the dive. When i dont know somebodies skill level i always revert to a divemaster mentality. That is why i chose "perhaps but would feel inconvenienced".
     
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  3. Barnaby'sDad

    Barnaby'sDad ScubaBoard Supporter ScubaBoard Supporter

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    As I’m new and would be happy to have someone to dive with...I selected “Without hesitation if we hit it off.”
     
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  4. Bob DBF

    Bob DBF Solo Diver

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    I'll dive with most anyone if we hit it off, unless I had a particular objective planned for the dive. Even then it would depend on my evaluation of the diver whether I would invite them along for my dive.

    Back in the day I was grateful to be invited along and mentored by more experienced divers which was how I got my early dive training. I feel an obligation to pass on the help, I'm sure those old guys had reservations about diving with me but they did it anyway.


    Bob
     
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  5. noj3333

    noj3333 Solo Diver

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    As a very new diver myself I wouldn't mind, assuming they appear competent...
     
  6. MaxBottomtime

    MaxBottomtime Solo Diver

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    I've taken a lot of people with me, but I usually tell them I will be photographing and will not be keeping an eye on them. They've been fine with that. If they run low on air first I will make sure they see the way to exit and I will then continue my dive.
     
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  7. TMHeimer

    TMHeimer Divemaster

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    I wouldn't hesitate, though it's never happened to me. I would talk to him/her to find out some backround on ability/experience, etc. and make sure we agreed on plan, procedures. I would also mention my objective of shell collecting. Many times here in NS I am the only one there. If it's a weekend there may be a couple of others, but buddied up.
    I can't recall running into a solo diver asking to buddy up in the NY area or FL panhandle either.
     
  8. -JD-

    -JD- Eclecticist ScubaBoard Supporter

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    It is all new enough to me that I'm just happy being wet, so I chose "without hesitation" - always an opportunity to work on honing some rough edge.

    I also chose "other" as I found out that pickup diving, means that you are really diving solo. Until proven otherwise, assume that your 'buddy' will blissfully swim on as if you never existed.
     
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  9. northernone

    northernone IDC Staff Instructor Staff Member

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    New, yet wise beyond your dive count. : D
     
  10. Compressor

    Compressor ScubaBoard Supporter ScubaBoard Supporter

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    I would go with them after checking them out. But I do not depend on them.

    Brings back funny memories from 2 years ago. Was at Sunset House in Caymans and buddies went to town for shopping. I went to the dock looking for divers. I would politely ask if folks would allow me to "tag" along. No, no and more no's. Finally these 2 elderly females came by and I said to myself I can go with them. Boy was I wrong as they told me they were more experienced than me.

    After an hour I walked over to Blue Grotto; same thing there for about an hour.

    Back to Sunset house and I went snorkeling.

    I sure felt like a loser and a dork. :dork2: So pathetic.
    P.S. Both places claim not to allow solo diving.
    But I laugh now when I think about it.
     

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