2.) Solo Dives: I'm probably in the minority of solo divers, but I think you need to take an even harder look at why you feel you really need a pony for a dive you are planning to do solo. The way I look at a pony is as extra time to solve a problem underwater. What are the potential problems that can occur on the dive you've planned that having an extra ____ minutes of time would make a difference? How deep are you planning to dive, will you be going into deco, are there any overheads (real like a cave or wreck, or virtual like boat traffic), are freeflows a potential problem? Would you still do the dive if you left the pony at home? For me, if the answer is a resounding no, then that is a dive I will not do solo.
I agree with you the only reason you should sling a pony is if you need it. i.e. decompression diving. I was going in that direction of always taking a slunk pony with me on solo dives, but have corrected this behavior. doubles have enough redundancy for me.