I am leaning toward an apartment in VA with good metro access and am gloing to try to find a realtor and or property management company to show me some options on Friday/Saturday with the intent of renting something before I leave.We have lots of friends who live in DC and love it. Personally I would not live there myself, but there is something to be said for not having to commute. Arlington / Crystal City are also good options with lots of housing choices very close to metro. Also, personally, MD would be my last choice. That being said, people in MD say they would never consider VA.
I am not inclined to live in MA given that my other hobby is practical pistol and tactical rifle shooting. MA does not strike me as being thrilled with either handguns or assault rifles - and DC is out of the picture entirely given that many of the firearms I own would not be legal there.
I went to college at SDSU and then transferred to Arizona. When I'd wear my SDSU sweatshirt everyone was impressed that I went to a cool school like SDSU. Being 19 at the time with typical 19 year old interests (girls, parties, more girls - maybe one that could help me with calculus as finals approached) and fully enjoying the beneifts of cool status, I never clarified that "SDSU" are the initials for both San Diego State University and South Dakota State University.I'm sure that being from SD you are used to traffic and high prices, so it should not be too much of a culture shock for you. Good luck!
Given that San Diego has about twice the population of the entire state of South Dakota and that San Diego State has 3 times the enrollment of South Dakota State, the confusion is understandable.
In South Dakota, if you tell someone you have a 45 minute commute, it is generally accepted that you live about 60 miles from work and drive at the socially accepted 6 or 7 mph over the posted speed limit (on snow packed roads in the winter, during the summer you have to slow down a little due to the road construction). A traffic jam means having to sit through more than one cycle of the traffic light (usually because the little old lady in front of you with the left turn signal that has been on for the last three weeks, fell asleep.)
Needless to say despite living in Phoenix for awhile and some very brief temporary duty stays in Denver, Minneapolis and Milwaukee DC will involve some culture shock. Not having my own 200 yard shooting range in the back yard or being able to sit on freind's deck and shoot small rocks off a large cliff across the creek with a 45-70 Sharps will be a couple of them. I suspect that sitting on the deck and shooting at anything would be frowned upon even in northern VA. :no