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Soap box warning!! :tonguewag:Originally posted by wingflyer152
Stein,
Exactly who are you to give PROFESSIONAL advice about diving?..... Sorry for the attitude, ..... You saying scuba diving is a right and not a privilege, this is exactly what I am talking about people trying to make diving sound "elite.".... The day you are brought to your knees by something that you cannot control, the day that you wake up and cannot drive, realizing that your life dream of being a pilot that you have attained has been taken from you and you will never get it back, when that day happens to you then, one day you can tell me about what is a privilege and what is a responsibility...... Wingflyer152
This post has bothered me for serveral days. I think that I might like to address why. First, my qualifications. I am the father of an epileptic daughter, now age 22 and a diabetic son (type 1) now age 18. Of the two illnessess, epilepsy is by far the worst in terms of lifestyle and coping with the illness emotionally. Wingflyer, my heart goes out to you. I am amazed by the way that you have confronted and in a way conquered the problems that life has handed you. Would I take my daughter diving with the accomodations that you mentioned? Yes, but then I am her father, I understand her illness and I don't mind going out on a limb for my child. That is what parents do. With that said, I would have to say that if either of these two children of mine (or any of the other 4 healthy children) displayed as much attitude or self pity has this post indicates, I would have kicked their respective butts! :spank: (Figuratively speaking of course.) It is my opinion, you see, that not only is diving a privilege but life itself is a privilege. I am 49 years old and have yet to meet anyone who has had an easy life. Most people fail to acheive their dreams. Most people are "brought to their knees by something that they cannot control." Often this comes by the decisions of an unfair boss. Sometimes by starting to drink socially with the guys while you are young only to realize 30 years later that you were predisposed to alcoholism. Sometimes a persons entire life becomes a daily struggle to overcome anxieties brought on by early childhood abuse. EVERYONE has their problems. Life is not easy for ANYONE. Not even for dentists.
I appreciate your struggle with certification agencies who appear non-supportive to you. Is that really any different than the struggle that all college students face in dealing with the beauracray of general ed requirements? By all means continue the struggle! Perhaps, a little more wisdom and empathy in dealing with others will allow you to be victorious in greater battles yet to come. Joy in life comes when we learn to be greatfull for the struggles. You definately have your struggles and you are definately being successful in dealing with them. Allow others the right to struggle also. Life is a "privilege." You have the "right" to the struggle.