Kennedydive
Contributor
If I, heaven forbid, ever die diving I want people to discuss the hell out of the subject. Make speculations, assumptions, and scenarios. As long as people are being respectful and not there ranting their own agenda than I could care less if what they say is wrong. If it encourages thought provoking discussion than that is healthy no mater how correct or incorrect it is. This is how we learn. If we are not allowed to ask questions than we will never learn from others situations or mistakes and lets face it this is a type of sport that seldom do you get a chance to learn from your own.
When you are not directly affected by the accident it is easy to ask questions. When you knew the person or were involved in the incident than it becomes much harder when you see individuals asking questions analyzing what mistakes they may have made. You tend to see and read things with your heart and that pain in your throat instead of reading things for what they are. Unfortunately we need both types of individuals to participate. The non-affected individual who will ask questions (sometimes the hard ones) and the people who knew the individual or were involved in the incident to shed light on the subject and to keep it from going way off track.
I don't believe that the thread has run its course but I do believe we need to be mature and respectful.
I feel that Candace posting her thread took lot of courage and would like to thank her for it. That takes a very strong person to do so. It always helps if the dive buddy in their own time participates in the discussion but I would never have any expectations that they should have to. That’s a lot for a group to ask and not our right to do so.
Jason
When you are not directly affected by the accident it is easy to ask questions. When you knew the person or were involved in the incident than it becomes much harder when you see individuals asking questions analyzing what mistakes they may have made. You tend to see and read things with your heart and that pain in your throat instead of reading things for what they are. Unfortunately we need both types of individuals to participate. The non-affected individual who will ask questions (sometimes the hard ones) and the people who knew the individual or were involved in the incident to shed light on the subject and to keep it from going way off track.
I don't believe that the thread has run its course but I do believe we need to be mature and respectful.
I feel that Candace posting her thread took lot of courage and would like to thank her for it. That takes a very strong person to do so. It always helps if the dive buddy in their own time participates in the discussion but I would never have any expectations that they should have to. That’s a lot for a group to ask and not our right to do so.
Jason