Just to clarify, in a buddy dive there is a contingency against two major failures--failed manifold and lost deco, or two lost deco, etc and those care covered by buddy's deco gas, your 2nd deco gas if dive requires it, and the 3rd of backgas/min gas reserve. A solo dive can handle one major failure, maybe 1.5 depending on time and circumstances
Carrying a 2nd deco bottle for a dive that doesn't require it is an added complexity and a waste of space. Doing backgas deco on a dive that only required one deco gas in the first place isn't the end of the world--you are basically are just doubling your deco time. If the dive plan is such that doubling the deco is too much, I would question the dive plan and see if there shouldn't be a 2nd deco gas included already. The space taken by a completely unused unnecessary 2nd deco bottle could be used for a bottom stage or just left blank for decreased drag. A bigger dive that requires two deco gases will have the backup deco mix already included. For dives that only require one deco mix, the back gas reserve is the contingency. At the end of the day it is a personal choice. Look at the dives you are doing and look at the ones you would like to attempt, play around with the lost deco scenarios--is adding a 2nd bottle worth the effort vs the potential increased backgas deco?