OK, a lot of you folks are getting caught up in minutia, and are missing the "big picture" here.
People keep focusing on the apocryphal case of the "panicked OW diver ripping the reg from your mouth". This is not the only scenario where you may unexpectedly give up your primary. In cave diving for example, we are taught that if we need to share air in a "lights out" situation, then we should find our buddy's primary "by feel" and take that. So that is actually an anticipated sort of event for a cave dive (i.e. we just "know" that it could happen), and so we plan accordingly, both mentally and in terms of our gear config. The same thing might happen in an OW setting on a limited visibility dive (night dive for example), or if the OOA diver has some visual impairment (lost mask, etc).
Also, regarding the issue of deploy vs non-deploy. There is no reason to deploy the full length of the long hose unless you need it, such as when swimming somewhere single file. Many times, an air share will commence in situations where the OOA diver is not truly out of air. A good example is picking up a stage bottle or rolling off a post or something. Admittedly, those problems could also be solved by going to the backup necklace, but so what? I am not going to chastise someone for not making the first, most obvious choice when they are OOA. If they need my primary, then I just give it to them. And if it seems prudent to deploy the full length of the long hose, then I do that. If not, then I don't.
Here's a perfect example from my own experience. I was doing a dive in Telford once where my buddy accidentally rolled off his left post. At some point during the dive, he went to check his SPG, saw that it read 0, and signaled me that he was OOA (which he wasn't actually of course, but he did not realize that at first). Almost as soon as he got my primary, he figured out what must have happened, and pointed for me to check his left post. I turned it on, and we were able to continue the dive. So in that situation, all my buddy really needed was a temporary source of gas, and there was no compelling reason to deploy the long hose.
The main thing to understand here is that for a DIR diver, losing the primary reg should be a non-event - just go to the backup on the necklace, sort out what needs to be done next, and move on.