Even though the regulator says 300BAR, it is unlikely the first stage seats will last long under that pressure.
I liked most of what you said in your post except for this. It's a bit of a fallacy that higher tank pressure wears out HP seats. The pressure forcing the seat against the orifice or piston edge is IP, not supply pressure. Higher tank pressure would then increase seat wear only to the extent that it raises IP, and even that's a bit iffy.
There would be more force on o-rings subject to supply pressure and that could accelerate o-ring wear, especially in locations where extrusion is an issue, like the HP piston o-ring in the MK5/10. But not the seat.
With diaphragm 1st stages, the supply force is upstream, so IP tends to drop at high supply pressures. In this case there would be theoretically less seat wear with HP tanks.
But the actual force at the seat/orifice junction is 'seating force' which is basically IP minus whatever force exists that's trying to push the seat/orifice apart. The bulk of that countering force is the mainspring in the 1st stage. Theoretically, a higher pressure gradient at the HP seat
should mean a higher seating force, but I don't really know how that would be calculated. It's a good question for Luis, he knows all this crap.....
BTW, valve "ratings" for pressure are meaningless. The valve is not going to explode under pressure. The pressures stamped on valves, at least in the U.S. (where the OP is posting from) refer to the burst disc pressure and can be easily changed. I had an unfortunate argument with an ignorant tank filler about that once....
The 200bar/300bar DIN issue is mostly a non-issue. The two standards were arrived at (so I've heard) to prevent regulators that were not built for HP use to be connected to HP tanks. The 200bar fitting is a few threads shorter; therefore the 200bar male end (regulator) cannot satisfy the 300bar female end (tank valve) because it's length will not penetrate to the necessary depth for a successful connection. The longer 300bar male end, which by the way is on basically all regulators (who would voluntarily choose a short one?) can fill the needs of both 200 and 300 bar valves. How's that for a description?
So get any DIN valve you want, as long as it's a standard 3/4" thread for your tank. And, as has been mentioned, get a valve with a burst disc in the 5000 PSI range for the AL80.
One more tidbit; I don't really believe that the poster from Australia got a tank back from hydrotest with 300 Bar of air because the tester 'forgot to take the test air out.' "Hydro" test, as the name implies, is done with water, not air, and never with the valve on the tank. Maybe they do things different down under, but I seriously doubt they test tanks by pumping 5000PSI of air through the valve.