sometimes no, my mares 1st will not work with other seconds, they just free flow. my us diver works with anything, I have a french reg that takes anything. and maybe others but those are the ones I have tried.
I agree with Jim, something else is wrong...if your Mares happens to be a MR-12 it for all intents and purposes is a Conshelf (same basic internal design and parts). Reguardless, IP is IP as long as it's within the same range the make, model or brand of reg does not matter, seconds have no way of "knowing" what first they are connected to other than IP pressure.