I think one problem is that people don't read their computer manuals and don't know what the computer is telling them when they go into deco for the first time.
Recently was in a group with a diver who blew off the deco obligation because he didn't know what his computer was showing (fortunately small so the worst that happened was that his computer locked him out). I went 3 minutes into deco on the same dive profile, but I knew that was going to happen when I ran the dive plan on my computer beforehand. Simply cleared the deco, did another 5 min at 5m depth for extra conservatism and that was it. Knowing what my computer was showing was very helpful!
I did have almost half a tank of air left though, so there was no reason to panic
Recently was in a group with a diver who blew off the deco obligation because he didn't know what his computer was showing (fortunately small so the worst that happened was that his computer locked him out). I went 3 minutes into deco on the same dive profile, but I knew that was going to happen when I ran the dive plan on my computer beforehand. Simply cleared the deco, did another 5 min at 5m depth for extra conservatism and that was it. Knowing what my computer was showing was very helpful!
I did have almost half a tank of air left though, so there was no reason to panic