For hand signals in general, and this would cover any signals for stops (see rjack321's post #4 for details) I would recommend the book "Hand Signals for Scuba Diving" by the NACD (National Association of Cave Diving). You can get it online and it covers a wide variety of signals for every category you can think of (basic communications, trouble signs, signs relating to buddy positioning, signs relating to the environment, etc.). Though written by the NACD these signs can easily be used for recreational diving. I use these signs in my own recreational diving and they have been easy to learn.
The advantage of using the NACD hand signals is they can be done with one hand, an advantage to those who carry equipment. Most, if not all , of the signals are intuitive. If you adopt these signs you will have to give up some cherished signs like the safety stop (a horizontal hand on top of a three fingered second hand) or the thumbs up (let's go shallower) sign.
Since the signs are from the NACD for use in overhead environments the thumbs up means "let's turn the dive" i.e., leave the overhead environment for open water. Since the safety stop is the raised pinky finger, in open water I've changed the thumbs up sign to mean I'm going directly to the surface right now bypassing any needed safety stop. It means I have a problem, not necessarily an emergency, that I cannot fix under water. Afetr the safety stop it means let's finish the dive and surface. The NACD sign for "go to a shallower depth" or get off the floor of the cave/cavern is a palms up hand with the hand going in an upward motion. This can be followed by signed numbers for the shallower depth.