Well I hope you two never dive on a mixed boat with spear divers armed with spear guns, or somebody with a dive knife, or dive from a boat with an outboard motor. You're probably fine with those around, but because a powerhead has gun powder it's scary, scary time.
Personal attacks add nothing to the conversation, especially by insinuating we are scared of anything dangerous. I spear fish, I use dive knives, I know not to puree myself on an outboard, I mean hell, I drive a car! basically the most dangerous thing any of us do. When someone dies in a car accident we ask the basic questions, were they wearing a seatbelt, was that intersection safely designed, was the other driver impaired, stuff like that. It is poor form to attack people trying to talk out an issue or idea.
All things with inherit danger and power require certain precautions and training to use them safely, including bangsticks. In an earlier post I said I was leaning towards the option of arming the DMs with them. But on the statistical scale does that make sense? What happens when/if people are hurt/killed at a greater rate due to bangsticks than from shark attacks? Just because someone is a capable/safe gun user doesn't mean everyone will be. Save yourself some stress and don't jump to conclusions anytime someone speaks about safety concerns surrounding gunpowder weapons. I am certainly not advocating to take your guns away.
The whole point of all my questions is to get the the root cause of the victims death. Was is pure bad luck? Was there attack attracting gear or behavior on her part? Could this attack have been deterred with a countermeasure like a bangstick or electronic shark repellent? Would a larger group of divers been enough to deter an attack?
I know I want to go back to Cocos, I want to see the tiger sharks there, and I want to do it as safely as possible. Sometimes doing nothing different is the best option, but if the scuba community doesn't reflect and talk about rare issues like this from all angles then we can never be sure we are doing the right thing.