In my former life, I was a musician and used to play at church services for a variety of denominations including having had the "fortune" to sit through a few full 3 hr long latin Catholic masses. It's pretty rough. My wife's family church is much more down to earth and while I don't agree with many of the base premises, I do usually find something within the Priest's sermons to relate to. Since we got married within the church, we also had to attend Pre-Cana which I was pleasantly surprised with. I know not all pre-Cana classes are like this, but ours was a 2 day thing where we spent most of the time talking about very practical matters with one another. There was the requisite section on "Natural Family Planning," but even that was presented in a pretty honest manner.