mark, there are others who feel the same as you. in fact, when the "truth" came out on scubaboard, your point was touched on (in a much more gentle way) from the beginning. i also believe in speaking your mind. and although all of us can UNDERSTAND your point of view, there is no need, IMHO, to be so harsh about it.
we can all learn from this mistake. and while it was a dive performed in poor judgement and lack of preparation, her getting narced was not on purpose which is what got her to 400ft. they had done (as friends, together, with thousands of dives each-NOT with clients) very deep dives before without narcosis. heath is a deep water stuntman for movies. going without any redundancy was bad. there is no argument for the huge mistakes made here.
DAN doctors, knowing about the dive and the situation, have come to visit gabi here in cozumel, absolutely AMAZED at how he is doing, much less that he even survived the event. they are using this case as a major learning case for DAN. they are very very interested in his medical treatment.
he knows it was wrong. they are all completely aware of the mistakes. and they are all alive still for the efforts of gabi. i spoke to him today and he gave me more info as to what happened. quite interesting actually. in a nutshell:
when they were at 330, opal kept going down to 400ft. he risked his life to get her, around 400ft. gave the ok sign, and with calmness in her eyes, she was "ok". (i.e. very narced). her gauge read 900psi, he grabbed her and took her up to heath at 320 or so. together they ascended to 200 when gabi and opal ran out of air. shared the tank with heath to the surface, never breath holding, 2 breaths each. at the surface, they removed their gear and the capt saw the pain and he lifted it all up and helped them on board. they all has signed of DCS. opal laid down in pain, as did the others. capt hooked up O2 on opal (since she was the worst). then, as captains do, he changed tanks, out of habit.
next, was crazy. there were other divers with a separate DM using the same boat at a much shallower depth. villa blanca wall is near the new transportador. the other divers were still in the water when these 3 surfaced. the captain, who wanted to leave and get them to the ambulance, had to wait for these other divers to come up as there were no other boats nearby to get them and wait for them to surface. he, as captain, could not abandon his other people either, and opal, was on O2.
then, out of nowhere, opal, in pain, grabbed her gear with the new tank and jumped off the boat. it happened so fast the capt didn't even see it know until she was in water. they grabbed a mask, saw her hanging at 30ft and gabi, again, to make sure she was ok, did the same, and heath followed. when the other divers arrived, they resurfaced, took off to the pier and got on the ambulance.
it was a story of one bad thing after another.
tragic, sad, and those who want to help with the drastic med expenses, will. those who chose not to, that is fine too. but these are people with families and they are loved by so many people. we only ask that you respect the sensitivity to the issue.