Otter Bay hood for sure. Cricket is well known throughout the Monterey area. You will find most people that dive often use her 12mm hoods, and they are custom made, so they fit nice and tight. Did I mention they are 12mm??? Double the thickness of your average hood. Most of us that dive together use one, and those that don't wish they did.
XS Scuba makes a pair of gloves that are dry gloves yet neoprene. My friend tried everything from ringed dry gloves that he hated along with many other brands of gloves before finally settling on the XS Scuba dry gloves. They do not attach to the suit instead they use a neoprene seal.
At some point you need to get a drysuit and quite wasting money on wetsuit stuff. I was wearing a 4/3 O'Niell ZEN ZIP full suit then a 7mm Pinnacle Polar, for 11mm over most of my body, with 7mm booties, and I was still cold after about 25 minutes. Now in a drysuit I can complete an 80 minute dive and be comfortably cold.