Tortuga68:You'd ditch your weight belt before inflating your BCD?
In this situation yes.
Please explain your thoughts on this.
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Tortuga68:You'd ditch your weight belt before inflating your BCD?
In this situation yes.
He would grab my October and forcibly pull me down when I would try to start heading to the surface. He would then pull me around the reef until we had less than 500psi remaining, sometimes until it was hard to suck air. We once had to CESA in 60 feet as we were completely out.How did your spouse make it a practice to run YOUR tank dry? Wouldn't this have required your cooperation?
You've described two different methods to overcome a downwelling: (1) crawling up or (2) go with flow and kick to get out. One obvious disadvantage of clinging to the rocks below and crawling up...is that you're constantly fighting the flow of water. It's not surprising at all that you were running through your air. At some point, you have to make the determination that it might be better to establish buddy contact (grab an arm), let go of the rocks, and try to get out of the oppressive current.Bubble trouble, on note number 2, we were NOT uncomfortable with the water; we were closed to finishing the dive; we were on our safety stop when the downwelling came. we had 1 minute or less left before completely ascending. We had so much air left right before the downwelling came. Naturally we had to struggle to get up and struggle to hang on to something to prevent us from being pulled down any further. Because we had to struggle, we started to consume more air.
We got pushed all the way down to 65ft from 5ft. To stop us from getting pushed further, we had to grab on to something. I knew there was a wall that heads up to the shore, so we just pulled ourselves up. The other 2 just drifted far from us and managed to get out of the downwelling.
I'd say that the briefing you got was probably inadequate. However, as soon as I hear "strong currents," I go into conservative diving mode -- not straying far from the boat, beginning the dive going into the current, padding Rock Bottom calculations, staying closer to my dive buddy, surfacing with way more gas than usual, etc. It's certainly possible that the dearth of information during the dive briefing could be attributed to the inexperience of your DM.The briefing for this dive was as simple as ''the current is strong do you want to go ahead?" is this a substantial briefing? Leejnd, if DM was optional we should have not taken their DM - probably the boatman would have suffice. Also, if we were told the place was common for downwelling we would have not gone and do the dive.
Most SoCal divers would consider that level of DM direction annoyingly restrictive.We not only look at our DM's to guide us but also take the 'leadership role' in the dive. I hope this statement doesn't get confused with over dependence on the DM, but we take action from DM's signal - go down, go up, safety stop, go on whatever direction.
Please explain your thoughts on this.
He would grab my October and forcibly pull me down when I would try to start heading to the surface. He would then pull me around the reef until we had less than 500psi remaining, sometimes until it was hard to suck air. We once had to CESA in 60 feet as we were completely out.
This was an extreme relationship, one in which I often felt I had "no choice" but to do what he wanted. I would otherwise pay the consequences in more unpleasant ways.
There is a reason why I now have restraining order, gun and Doberman. Life is much more normal now and my dives consist of normal dives, often surfacing with more than half my gas left.
This really isn't the place to discuss this toxic relationship although I'm sure there are millions of women in similar situations, most certainly some are diving with their partners and having their lives endangered in many other ways.
Let's just say I can empathize with the Watson family, who lost their daughter on her honeymoon diving. Apparently, she didn't even want to get certified but "he would kill her" if she didn't. I often made decisions in the past for this very same reason. Luckily, I got out relatively intact and still able to enjoy the sport I love.