While this terrible event deserves our empathy... what it does not deserve is a discussion of blame, given so little information about the circumstances. Police reports and subsequent news reporting of diving related accidents are notoriously unreliable in their details. The children were raised on a farm by parents, and even their grandmother, who are well known to the community as experienced divers. Dive shops routinely host "bubble blowing" pool events for children in this age range. Since they were visitors where the accident occurred, it's possible that the cylinder and regulator were provided by someone other than the parent. Technical diving history is filled with many accidents by exceptionally experienced divers related to breathing gas mixture errors in labelling and switching. Few divers would be aware that, compared to an adult, children are at increased risk for rapid oxygen desaturation leading to hypoxia as a result of higher metabolism and lower residual oxygen storage capacity. What multi-tasking parent hasn't had the experience of having their attention distracted from their children for "just a moment"?
Their family will endure this burden forever, I see no point adding to their pain.