It's definitely true that the MK15 has more stable IP at higher pressures; there's tighter tolerance around the HP o-ring due to the bushings, and the larger piston head probably helps a bit too. I think the MK15 is an under-rated 1st stage, as long as it has had the adjustable seat retainer replaced. It's easy to see; if there's a hex fitting on the HP side of the regulator, it's the original seat retainer, and if it has 2 small holes for a pin spanner (like the MK10) then it's been replaced. SP had a spectacular problem with those original adjusting seat retainers. Techs were adjusting the IP by screwing in/out the retainer while the reg was under pressure, which allowed the piston knife edge to basically saw it's way into the seat. Occasionally the piston would get stuck in the seat (immediately cutting off all air) or just cut seat into pieces. (immediately allowing all HP air to pass)
So there was a recall and the updated seat retainer did away with the nutty 'rotate the seat to adjust IP' idea and returned to the stationary seat retainer and shims for adjusting IP. My MK15 is super reliable and going on 6-7 years since I rebuilt it. It still locks up perfectly but I don't use it too much. There are a couple of oddball things about working on them; they need a specific set of circlip pliers and a specific bushing tool. Plus the seat is unique and not as easily available. But the performance is for all practical purposes similar to the MK20/25, and usually at a much lower price.
Your exhaust valve leak might be from a dent or slight corrosion around the "spider" where the exhaust valve seals. I've had that happen on some of my 109s. The exhaust valve, mouthpiece, or diaphragm are about the only places you could have a vacuum leak in those regs. The diaphragm would be pretty obvious, I would think. I've never had a torn one.