What Peter said . . . when I started, I tried to do what PADI teaches, and I just couldn't manage it. I had a couple of very scary uncontrolled ascents, until someone suggested I do the "20 foot squeeze" (which is keeping the amount of squeeze on the suit that you have if you just descend to 20 feet without putting any air in). That's actually excessive and uncomfortable; but allowing the suit to be modestly squeezed makes life much easier. Air in the BC just CAN'T get as far away from somewhere you can dump it as air in a dry suit can.
As you develop facility with managing the dynamic instability of the suit, and with anticipating buoyancy changes, you can put more gas in the suit and stay warmer.
The same instructor who developed the "20 foot squeeze" concept was the one who disabled my wing during a class, to ensure I could dive with the maximum containable amount of gas in my suit.
The answer is that there is no right answer. It's just some approaches are easier at some phases of your diving life than others.