I'm new to scuba too and I know what you're talking about.
One thing you may want to check. Do you have a dive computer that you can hook up to your PC? If you do print our your profiles. There is a slight chance you may not be as neutrally buoyant as you think and your actually trying to use your breath to compensate. One guy on this board said he thought he'd had buoyancy master until he got a computer and printed out his profile.
Another thing I was taught, breathing is only one way to manipulate your depth. If you're neutrally buoyant, then one good kick up or down (by moving your head) should also change your depth in the water. I've heard, perhaps one day I'll find out, that good divers use a combination of things to manipulate themselves in the water efficiently, and that only comes with practice.
But these guys have hit on two key components, if you think about your breath, then you are going to consume more air without a doubt, and dive more, get more comfortable with how your body positions control your depth.
Good luck - I need it too. And if the need for practice gives you just that much more of an excuse to dive, then why fight it? Thats what I say.
Dive safe.