Exactly. People act as if some of these entries are on the level of Navy Seal teams making water entries at 30mph face first off the sides of a RIB. This is recreational diving, let's keep it in perspective. And if you don't like the way somebody is trying to make you do something on the boat just say FU, we aren't doing that. Again, its recreational diving it's supposed to be fun not stressful, just have a linear path of safety and don't deviate from it based on a dive master or a boat crew member trying to rush you into the water or put you in a situation you don't like. The worst case scenario is you end up back on the dock and sipping a tropical drink at the bar.
I don't know if that bolded comment would be the best way to approach the dive operator or crew. To be honest, when working as a DM, I never had someone tell me "FU"... but if they did something like that in response to my directions, they might have gotten punched in the groin (gender appropriate of course) or at a minimum, the person would be sitting out the dive (and not getting a refund).
A good operator will generally have developed a set of protocols that are reasonably safe and effective for the type of diving they are doing. Again, they are used to seeing a wide variety of diver competencies. My advice to a customer who was being directed to do a "hot drop", negative descent or some other activity which they do not understand, or are uncomfortable with or feel is unsafe... then definitely bring this up with the crew ASAP.
A more in depth discussion may reveal that the dive REQUIRES a certain level of skills or competencies, and if you lack those things, then it is better to discover this information BEFORE you endanger yourself or someone else. Possibly the crew can select a different dive site, possibly provide a more detailed explanation or even recommend that you sit this dive out. All of those options are probably better than telling the crew to FO, and doing whatever the hell you please.
I'm serious about this. The worse case scenario might have you getting run over by a boat - not sipping drinks at the bar..Not all dives are fun little baby dives. Some (recreational) dives (in some conditions) ARE stressful and if you don't perform them properly, the consequences can be significant. The attitude you express above may not be wise at all.
For example, we used to hot drop into wrecks in palm beach in 80 or 90 feet of water with a strong current. We would explain the protocol in detail, but basically everyone needs to bail out of the boat as fast as possible and begin a descent immediately. If you can not descend at 50 feet per minute due to ear issues or something else, then you MAY be able to follow above a DM and stay in visual with their bubbles and still make a descent at a slower pace.
We would tell people, if you have a problem and you can't get down fast.. or you get down to 60 or 90 feet and see no wreck and or no people, then look around for a minute and then you MUST come up immediately.. or you will drift off the wreck. Do not stay down and drift...Because everyone is going to stay on the wreck until XX minutes have elapsed and the dive is over.
If you come up quickly, the boat can pick you up and re-drop you for another attempt.
In reality, after you have done it 20 or 100 times it IS easy and stress free, but you gotta perform certain actions in a timely manner. For new divers who have only been in a quarry, it is going to be somewhat of a challenge.
If you have to dick around on the surface, or you can't clear your ears quickly etc. etc. - then sorry... this is not the dive for you when the current is strong.
We had a guy once who missed the wreck, stayed down and just drifted along. 45 minutes later, everyone is on the boat and nobody knows where he is. We search on the surface for 5-10 minutes and conclude he is not there. I re-enter the water, drop to the wreck and swim frantically around searching for bubbles or possibly someone lost in the wreck and find nothing. A terrible feeling..
We found him 3 miles north drifting on the surface.. he just did what he wanted. stayed down for 45 minutes drifting with a 1,5 kt current , It would have been better for everyone if he just said FU at the start of the dive.
I very nearly punched the guy out - after I heard him complain a few hours after the dive that the captain was incompetent and almost lost "him".