It would appear to me that you two had decided on Swain's innocence long before he was tried, the rest of us, at least, considered the evidence as it was revealed.
It would "appear" to you that way - but you would be wrong.
I did do some soul searching and thought long and hard about whether it was possible for the David Swain I knew to have done such a thing. While you may not believe what I'm saying, I
did explore the possibility in my thoughts that we all have a dark side that is unknowable by others and perhaps are capable of things others would never suspect of us. This exploration process happened long before I came to Scubaboard - and long before any of you had even heard David or Shelley's names. I found that I did not *believe* that David was capable of it - but I remained open to the possibility that some evidence might come out in either of the trials that could sway me. I am, by education and by trade, a scientist - facts are able to convince me - supposition is not.
So, in addition to what I believed I knew personally of David's character, I also looked hard at the evidence that was brought out in BOTH trials - to see if a) the evidence supported ONLY the prosecutions' versions of what happened; or if b) some other explanation was possible that did NOT support that a murder had occurred. I came to the conclusion that I could come up with a number of other scenarios that did not include murder. And once each of the prosecution sides put forth their actual cases in both the civil trial and then again later in the criminal trial, it was clear to me that, given the evidence, neither of the prosecutions in either trial had made their case to me, as an experienced diver. I believe in innocence UNTIL PROVEN GUILTY beyond a reasonable doubt - and in my mind, there were just far too many reasonable doubts.
My belief in innocence until guilt is proven appears to be a major difference between myself and some of you - you seem to jump to an assumption of guilt first and then look for "proof" of innocence. That's not the way the justice system is supposed to work. And it's the way I try to live my life in relationships with other people.
Anyone is free to agree or disagree, but I know the thought process I went through in making up my mind - and you don't.
I'm now done with this conversation - nothing that is said here will change the fact that David's name has now been cleared of murder and that some of you will never agree that that should've happened.
I'm grateful for the cogent information and input from Dadvocate, Rhoneman, Scuba QTX, DandyDon, DA Aquamaster, NolaTom, and Txaggie08. I would love to meet and dive with any and all of you some day.
AfterDark, let's get together soon, my friend.
Sadiesmom