I watched the video, and I don't see the tank or plate shifting up and down on your back at all. The tank may be too high in the cambands for your comfort, but it looks like the rig is amazingly stable, considering how loose the straps are.
What I can't figure out is how you can have the crotch strap tight and still have the shoulder straps THAT loose. My shoulder straps on my rig are really loose, but when I put the whole thing on, the crotch strap pulls the rig down and takes the slack out of them, and the net result is everything is stable. All I can think of is that, wherever it is you are fastening the waist belt, it won't pull down at all, so the whole rig can't move down your body, and if the shoulder straps are loose, it shows up as slack.
I really think you need some knowledgeable eyes on you in the water and out of it, to get this figured out, because it isn't making a lot of sense to me. And the video helped only to the extent that it shows the rig isn't shifting very much.
What I can't figure out is how you can have the crotch strap tight and still have the shoulder straps THAT loose. My shoulder straps on my rig are really loose, but when I put the whole thing on, the crotch strap pulls the rig down and takes the slack out of them, and the net result is everything is stable. All I can think of is that, wherever it is you are fastening the waist belt, it won't pull down at all, so the whole rig can't move down your body, and if the shoulder straps are loose, it shows up as slack.
I really think you need some knowledgeable eyes on you in the water and out of it, to get this figured out, because it isn't making a lot of sense to me. And the video helped only to the extent that it shows the rig isn't shifting very much.