dytis-sm
Contributor
This was your first dive with him- I wouldn't go with him again. I certainly would not ascend with him either- I think it is fortunate you did not have a hold of his BC before he went up. Panic is the killer- you are obligated to help but not to compromise your health and life. It isn't unusual to see the people with the fanciest gear and all the bells and whistles screwing up.
Actually I am trying to make this a learning experience because I am sure it will happen again. I usually know the people I dive with and this was one exception which can easily occur again. I should have checked his air more often because obviously he is not and that may get him in trouble. Or he learned an invaluable lesson too. I did screw up on several occasions when I was starting out (never had an OOA situation however) and although I screwed up my buddies' dive, they were kind and supportive. There are some very kind and passionate divers out there that promote the sport by being supportive of newbies. I cannot say that for other sports.
I actually did go diving with that same buddy on the second dive for the day. I was checking air often, stayed shallow, had a long nice safety stop, and made it to the boat with 1200 psi of air for his 100 cf tank. I felt that this was the best way to move on. But I had to share with the board as I did want the input of the professionals and more experienced divers. As I already mentioned this was a learning experience with no injuries and it taught me how to dive with strangers...