ScoobaDood
Contributor
I've never laid eyes on the bridge and that is exactly how I read that statement (see previous post). If the OP researched this dive like they claimed, I'm a bit surprised that this wasn't evident to them as well.
Lessons learned:
Ask as many questions as you can when diving an unfamiliar site.- Do a site survey and talk to other divers about conditions when you arrive.
- When in doubt, sit it out.
CD,
I couldn't agree more about asking as many questions, and doing more research. What got me fired up about this thread is that after having this bad experience, the reaction was like a feeding frenzy kicking the OP while she was down. Most of the active posters here, in my experience, take a better approach of sharing their years of experience and advising the person on where they went wrong, but in a constructive and considerate manner. I'm not saying to sugar coat the comments, but have some consideration.
Instead of the 'You shouldn't be diving', 'this is all your fault' mentality, one just as easily could have said something like ... I'm sorry to hear about your bad experience. This particular dive is generally considered to be easy. Remember that you are responsible for yourself out there, so don't be so quick to rely on the LDS telling you what the conditions are. Always research your dives, especially if you are new to the area, and make sure you are clear on what to expect at the site.
Now, I think the way CoolTech responded in the end was not only constructive, but going above by offering to guide a dive for the OP. I'm just not sure that after the way the conversation started that I would take the offer either. Its like getting a punch in the nose from someone and then going inside and having a beer with them. Well ok, maybe not just like that, but you get the idea.
Most of the time this is how I find that people here respond...with consideration and a desire to support the sport and fellow divers. DandyDon comes to mind quite often. I'm not saying he doesn't tell it like it is, but he is most always considerate and you can tell by his posts that he is trying to help, not add insult to injury.
Another $.02 in the jar from me.