You will need two wrenches to remove the SPG - one to hold the gauge and one to turn the fitting. Personally I'd skip the extra SPG, buy a good brass one and don't worry about it as they are pretty bullet proof.
The HP spool is easy to replace. Just remove the SPG fropm the hose an the spool will be stuck on either the hose or the SPG. Just pull it out with your fingers (or with a pair of needle nose pliers if it is slightly stuck with salt, etc. They come in two basic flavors, one that is straight and another that has a flange in the middle and both cost about $7. Lubricate the o-rings with either christolube or silicone grease.
The trim boot on the Mk 25 is mostly cosmetic, athough it probably does protect the seat retainer to some extent.
IP creep is detected most easily with an IP gauge. You can buy one from leisure pro or a similar on-line source that plugs into the BC inflator hose.
Or you can go to the local hardware store and dive shop and make one. You need your basic shop compressor or air tank gauge (about $10-$12) with a zero to 180-250 psi range which should come with a 1/4 NPT thread. Buy a 2" female 1/4NPT to female 1/4 NPT nipple and install the gauge on one end using pipe thread tape and install a 1/4 NPT to BC QD fitting from your local dive shop on the other end of the nipple.
A normal first stage will have a stable IP in the 120-150 psi range that drops about 10-15 psi when you purge the reg. When you release the purge the needle should quickly swing back to the original IP and remain their with little or no creep. If the needle continues to move upward after the initial swing, you have a leaky HP seat.