Hi Esprise, I can recommend the Mares Nemo Wide at Amazon for $ 205. I had the original, bought in 2007, died after about 1000 dives. Then I saw it on Amazon and bought two units a couple of years ago. The price is pretty good, less than half of that of 2007. Mares does not make these anymore, looks like someone had excess supply. They are genuine. I'm happy enough with this model.
I think it fits what you are asking for - 4 buttons, backlight button is convenient, I don't find the ascent alarm 'overly sensitive' (although it will beep when you raise your hand quickly), it has average depth readable on the display after the dive, you will need a separate cable for downloading (not too important to me, maybe not to you either for a backup), I find it a little on the conservative side, but not very (just anecdotally, compared to other divers on the boat), I've contacted Mares twice over the years and I find them responsive.
It is a bulky device, case size is about 3" x 2.5" actual display is a little smaller all around, with a very large display, sturdy semi stiff strap that you can attach a small cutting device to, button cell for power, (air and nitrox modes of course).
It may or may not not suit you, but for me, after looking at others including Shearwater, it was just fine since I was already used to it.
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