I don't know the full details of what happened to each of you and agree some screw ups are not forgivable, but in general:
If you have an issue with a LDS or a company in general, why don't you voice your issue/opinion to the management.
With all the competition it's too easy to lose a client to the WWW or another company. I would imagine that Aloha or any company would of done good with the issue somehow...I know I have many times even when were not at fault.
Here are a few examples:
McDonald's give you free food when they screw up
Sport Chalet has given me free air fills or 20% discounts
My LDS has given me free air fill cards
Restaurants won't charge you for food you don't like or give you free desert
**Try voicing; on the long run you and I will get better service **