Pug,
teaching diving skills and knowlege is the easy part, it is a matter of time and effort andyou can teach anyone who wants to learn, how to dive.
YOU CANNOT TEACH ATTITUDE.
your students have to adopt an attitude. We adopt the attitude of those we respect and hold as role models. As a mentor to this "generic" diver, you have the duty to guide this diver to want to adopt the correct attitude. Harsh words may be enough, they may be not, however I have found with the gung ho newbie, that ultimatums are often very effective.
I am thinking of the new DM or DM candidate in particular, that feels the "it wont happen to me syndrome. I have taken a number of them aside and told then that although they are meeting the requirements for the course or passing the exams, I will not certify them due to attitude and that they have a certain amount of time to demonstrate to me the correct attitude or the course is over.
In the case of a recently certified DM, this is not possible, but the threat of blacklisting them for employment is equally effective.
whatever approach you take, you have to consider:
Is what you do to adjust their attitude fair, is it for the best of all involved, and will it build goodwill.
teaching diving skills and knowlege is the easy part, it is a matter of time and effort andyou can teach anyone who wants to learn, how to dive.
YOU CANNOT TEACH ATTITUDE.
your students have to adopt an attitude. We adopt the attitude of those we respect and hold as role models. As a mentor to this "generic" diver, you have the duty to guide this diver to want to adopt the correct attitude. Harsh words may be enough, they may be not, however I have found with the gung ho newbie, that ultimatums are often very effective.
I am thinking of the new DM or DM candidate in particular, that feels the "it wont happen to me syndrome. I have taken a number of them aside and told then that although they are meeting the requirements for the course or passing the exams, I will not certify them due to attitude and that they have a certain amount of time to demonstrate to me the correct attitude or the course is over.
In the case of a recently certified DM, this is not possible, but the threat of blacklisting them for employment is equally effective.
whatever approach you take, you have to consider:
Is what you do to adjust their attitude fair, is it for the best of all involved, and will it build goodwill.