I did the oil rigs dives 2 weeks ago. I am nowhere near calling myself an experienced diver but I do have a fair bit of experience diving weekly in California and off boats here where, as
The blue water below you is absolutely hypnotic. I was anxious enough as it is about this dive and not having anything below me was nerve wracking. It's not hard for me to imagine this taking a large mental toll to the extent that you can lose situational awareness. My solution was to always swim over a crossbar for pretty much the entire dive (lame, I know).
Not lame at all. You were a bit anxious about the dive and you found a way to mitigate your anxiety, while keeping the dive safe... and you gained experience diving the rigs. Sounds like good conservative planning, and will set you up nicely for your next trip to the rigs.
Lame would have been ignoring your anxiety, exceeding your ability and comfort level, and possibly causing a problem for your buddy and the crew.
([I]My comment here should not be construed as a criticism of the incident in this discussion. As I mentioned in my previous post, the victim in this incident was very experienced and the dive was well within his experience limits.[/I])