Tyki,
"My husband and I both recognized that it will require many dives with dive masters and or dive instructors before we would even consider diving on our own."
This is a common attitude, but it only works when you are at a resort that caters to your type of diver or you pay a DM to dive with you. In many areas you are on your own. Another problem with this is while you gain experience you never go back to pick up those skills you never learned. Some people become dependent on the DM and never wean themselves from following the leader.
"1. Well, I personally think that when I put on the weight belt that it had too much weight on it for me, I want to practice starting with zero weight and finding the right amount for myself."
A common error. Most instructors do not take the time to properly weight their students. Some are clueless about the entire topic. Actually checling weight in the water is the only way to know for sure.
"2. I want to try a couple different snorkels, I had trouble keeping my snorkel clear and the instructor said it was because the snorkel I was using was too short (the weights were keeping me low in the water and I kept getting water in the snorkel)."
Did you ever learn to use a snorkel? Most courses never teach skindiving although it's an important part of a good course.
"3. I managed to "sip" the air for the freeflowing regulator for the required 30 seconds, but I'd like to practice that again."
This is one of those skills PADI required that some other agencies ignored. It is an excellent skill and 30 seconds isn't enough. YMCA added it as a requirement this year. PADI gets kudos for taking the lead on this one.
"4. My husband and I managed to swim together while sharing air (using the octopus) but it felt awkward, I'd like to take some time practicing that a bit more."
Practice any skill you aren't comfortable with until you are.
"5. I want to try some different fins, I felt like I was fighting with them some to keep them where I wanted them."
Fins are a matter of personal perference. I prefer Scubapro Jet Fins, other like one of the split fins or something else. I'd recomment practicing swimming in fins without SCUBA until you are comfortable with your fins. Any fin will feel unnatural at first.
"Most of the things on this list are a matter of becoming more comfortable with the equipment. It's not that I can't do the skills, just that they aren't second nature to me yet."
The skills (and more) should be second nature to you. Keep it up, it'll be good for you.
I'm very encouraged by your attitude, it shows you will continue to work on learning more and improving your abilities. A little research prior to starting your class would have been better for you. Good luck and if I can help, please contact me.
Aegir,
I agree, your friend was short changed, he needs another course, check out http://diverlink.com/newdiver/ for info on how to choose a course. There are several related topics there that should help.
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"My husband and I both recognized that it will require many dives with dive masters and or dive instructors before we would even consider diving on our own."
This is a common attitude, but it only works when you are at a resort that caters to your type of diver or you pay a DM to dive with you. In many areas you are on your own. Another problem with this is while you gain experience you never go back to pick up those skills you never learned. Some people become dependent on the DM and never wean themselves from following the leader.
"1. Well, I personally think that when I put on the weight belt that it had too much weight on it for me, I want to practice starting with zero weight and finding the right amount for myself."
A common error. Most instructors do not take the time to properly weight their students. Some are clueless about the entire topic. Actually checling weight in the water is the only way to know for sure.
"2. I want to try a couple different snorkels, I had trouble keeping my snorkel clear and the instructor said it was because the snorkel I was using was too short (the weights were keeping me low in the water and I kept getting water in the snorkel)."
Did you ever learn to use a snorkel? Most courses never teach skindiving although it's an important part of a good course.
"3. I managed to "sip" the air for the freeflowing regulator for the required 30 seconds, but I'd like to practice that again."
This is one of those skills PADI required that some other agencies ignored. It is an excellent skill and 30 seconds isn't enough. YMCA added it as a requirement this year. PADI gets kudos for taking the lead on this one.
"4. My husband and I managed to swim together while sharing air (using the octopus) but it felt awkward, I'd like to take some time practicing that a bit more."
Practice any skill you aren't comfortable with until you are.
"5. I want to try some different fins, I felt like I was fighting with them some to keep them where I wanted them."
Fins are a matter of personal perference. I prefer Scubapro Jet Fins, other like one of the split fins or something else. I'd recomment practicing swimming in fins without SCUBA until you are comfortable with your fins. Any fin will feel unnatural at first.
"Most of the things on this list are a matter of becoming more comfortable with the equipment. It's not that I can't do the skills, just that they aren't second nature to me yet."
The skills (and more) should be second nature to you. Keep it up, it'll be good for you.
I'm very encouraged by your attitude, it shows you will continue to work on learning more and improving your abilities. A little research prior to starting your class would have been better for you. Good luck and if I can help, please contact me.
Aegir,
I agree, your friend was short changed, he needs another course, check out http://diverlink.com/newdiver/ for info on how to choose a course. There are several related topics there that should help.
WWW