jenth, I'm 5'4", and I haven't had the issues you describe. I do have a little extra hose with a single tank setup, but I just push the extra BEHIND me, instead of allowing it to make a look around my neck, and everything works fine.
I haven't dived the Miflex hoses, but I have done air-sharing drills with a buddy who has one, and I didn't like it one bit. Despite the fact that they describe these hoses as more flexible, I found it stiff and uncooperative, and much more difficult to use as a recipient then a standard hose. I am considering Miflex for my backup reg and wing inflator hoses, because of routing, but I wouldn't switch to Miflex for the 7' hose, myself.
I haven't dived the Miflex hoses, but I have done air-sharing drills with a buddy who has one, and I didn't like it one bit. Despite the fact that they describe these hoses as more flexible, I found it stiff and uncooperative, and much more difficult to use as a recipient then a standard hose. I am considering Miflex for my backup reg and wing inflator hoses, because of routing, but I wouldn't switch to Miflex for the 7' hose, myself.