shakeybrainsurgeon:
The tone should be; three of our community died on a pleasure dive and that, under any circumstances, is entirely unacceptable.
Hold the phone...
"unacceptable" to whom? Sad... yea, I'll agree. Unfortunate... yea. Condolances... OK. But "unacceptable"?
With respect, you seem to be taking somebody's personal choice and institutionalizing it where no "institution" exists. As I have noted before, diving is a risky sport as we're performing our 'recreational activity' in a hostile environment that is repleate with things that can an will kill you.
Even if your are diving as safely as possible, accidents happen and things go wrong and people die. Its the way it is.
My comprehension of high risk sports is that to understand and accept the potential risks is the first step toward becoming a 'safe' diver. Somebody, much earlier in this thread, made a comment about some cave divers (if I recall the post correctly) were extremely 'risk adverse'... I find absolutely noting unusual about this. The intelligent diver does everything they can to understand and to minimize risk... but does so with the understanding that it is absolutely and completely impossible to eliminate it.
... there are simply too many uncontrollable factors to make it safe. Ignoring or minimizing the 'controllable' element simply amplies the inherently present risk factors.
Folks... if we want to improve dive safety, the FIRST thing to do is drop the idealizim... when I'm diving my first concern is for my own safety... THEN and only then will I tend to YOUR safety. I may love ya' as a friend on the surface where air is plentiful and we are in our element... but there are good friends I wouldn't dive with on a bet. If I do dive with them and things go wrong... MY FAULT and ONLY "my fault". My opportunity to save my life begins on the surface before I put on my gear. Every step I take past that point increase the risk factors. It's simple...
Many years ago I tried to volunteer for the SEALS. Well... to make a long story short, I couldn't get in because I was 'color deficient' in my eyesight. When I protested this fact a rather kindly (but LARGE) SEAL Chief said to me, "Son... let's put it this way. If we send you out to blow up a bridge some night... and you inadvertently put a red wire where a green wire is supposed to go... well, we don't mind if you kill yourself, we just don't want you taking seven other guys with you."
There in lies all the wisdom in the world about risk management.
So... let's drop the bravado and parental attitudes. THEY chose their path... I doubt if it was a 'spur of the moment' thing... it was contemplated, planned and the plan was put into motion. For all I know they did "plan their dive and dive their plan"... it might have (technially) been a good plan... it might not have been.
The dive op didn't kill them.... SG didn't kill them... diving didn't kill them. What did them in was the choices they made. MAYBE they've done it before... maybe they got away with it before... maybe it was the law of averages that caught up... I don't know... I don't care.
The simple fact is... whatever plan they had, whatever experience they had, whatever other qualifactions they may have brought to the party... in the final analysis it was insufficient and consequences ensued.
What I take away from this is three basic points...
1: Diving is dangerous...
2: No plan is flawless
3: My choice of hobbies (if continued) can be terminal
Yes... I feel sorry for them and their families... but its the nature of the sport when the envelope is pushed beyond...
Maybe its time for NAUI and PADI to stop trying to make diving a 'touchy, feely marketable product' and call it like it is... a risky activity that can kill you. As they say, "There are old heros... and there are bold heros... but no old AND bold heros."
Sorry for the semi-rant... but I DO feel sorry for these guys... they lost their lives because *something* went wrong... and I think we're missing the real message of their deaths.