Blackcrusader
Contributor
That's right that in some occasions, I have followed a DM and I was not happy. In this particular case, I still had air but I breached my own personal rules. I think that I need to learn to say no immediately and not wait for the last minute.
You need to inform others of your personal rules if you want them to know why you want to call a dive. So explain to your guide that you expect to be at the safety stop level before you get to 50 bar and that you will surface if you get to 50 bar. Of course if you are 50m away from the dive boat it might have been better to have stayed underwater to get to the boat ladder. Sometimes it's a bit easier to swim than being on the surface and be on the boat with 45 bar.
You will get the experience from the dives you are doing. Often you write your wife is your dive buddy so you as a pair can certainly plan to exit the water when the first of you gets to 50 bar. That's easy as you can manage your depth so that when you get to 60 bar you start to make sure you are at less than 10m depth, then get to 5m complete your safety stop and exit the water.
On my recreational diving most of the time I am finishing with way more than 50 bar so that limit has never been a fixed personal rule for me. Some shops ask that you do 55 - 60 minute dives and exit the water or exit with 40 bar. Some places say you can dive and exit with 40 bar and no time limit. Some are 75 minutes max time for a dive. Probably the favourite of my last 250 dives was when I asked the dive center owner if myself and my guide could just dive with no time limit and end the dive with 50 bar. He knew I wanted an unfettered dive where dive time was not limited. It was also my guides birthday so it was just the two of us. Both experienced and we discussed our dive plan and basically it was let's do the wreck dive to 34m on air, come up a sloping shelf to the reef and not go into deco. His DC was limited more on NDL to mine so we had to pay attention to our own DC's.
So we did the dive and got back on the boat with 50 bar. We stuck to the dive plan. 93 minute dive time max depth 34m. ( I would have liked to have stayed to 100 minutes as still had plenty of air ) Stayed a couple of minutes to NDL till we got to shallower water where NDL time didn't need to be monitored so much. Either of us could have called the dive if low on air or cold or lost interest. For both of us it was one of the best dives we had done together. One of my favourite dives in the last decade for me. I remember the dive as I got some photos of rarely seen sea horses.
I try to remember the good dives that give me happy memories. A few difficult dives I still remember though. You are learning from doing more dives.
