my LDS sold me on the Aeris Ion setup. Well its been okay but after my last trip and having my computer fail I want to add a backup gauge. Today at a different LDS i was told the first stage only has 1 HP port. So my question is can I add some kind of splitter to run my transmitter and the hose or do I need a new regulator? . . . I've had two different answers at different LDS's now.
The Ominiswivel HP Y-block, as ontdiver mentioned, is a good approach. The trade-off (there are really no 'solutions' to most problems, only trade-offs) is that the hose routing may end up being (or appearing to be) just a bit less than optimally streamlined. That really isn't a significant issue, and the Y block is fully functional and much less expensive than purchasing another first stage (and Dive Gear Express is a great vendor with which to do business). I am not sure why you would get different answers from different LDS outlets, unless one of them simply wanted to sell you another first stage. I ALWAYS discuss ports - their number and position on the first stage - with divers considering there first regulator purchase, because of this very consideration.
Many divers do not find a need for two HP ports, although the number that do is growing, as more divers acquire computers with wireless air integration. I looked at the Aeris website, and had to chuckle at one of the bulleted features listed for the Ion:
- 4 LP ports, 1 HP ports for maximum hose placement
I am not sure what the Aeris definition of 'maximum hose placement' is. I suspect it is not the same as mine (or yours at this point).

But, you have had a valuable lesson - relying solely on wireless air integration is probably unwise. I love it for convenience - I only have to rotate my wrist to check my gas supply - except, of course, when my transmitter loses sync, or the battery fails, or ... . My primary pressure monitor is always my SPG.