Garrobo - I just came back from the Keys also and I think you were on my boat (or maybe that was just another superior diver making fun of the new guys). While I was in the Keys, I was hooked up with a new AOW on the Grove. She also had trouble hooking up her gear, getting it on, and her giant stride into the water. She also blew through air. Funny coincedence. It ends there though. After her first dive, I sat her down and talked to her. Come to find out, she was nervous having more experienced divers watching her every move (which caused her to screw up hooking up her gear and putting it on), and she was excited about being on a wreck (hence, blowing through her air). She was extremely apologetic about ending the dive with 600 lbs for her and 1950 for me. During our surface interval, I actually witnessed divers rolling their eyes, making comments, and I was EMBARRASSED for our sport. You know what I did? I actually told her to ignore everyone, stop worrying about what everyone else was thinking and enjoy the dive. If she ended it early, SO WHAT!!! Amazing thing happened, she came up with 300 lbs more air than the first dive...
My question would be how did this diver affect you? Was it your buddy? If not, how did their sucking through air affect you?? Did they tank off your regulator??? Our sport is slowly decreasing from my experience in the Keys, I'm pretty sure I can figure out why. When did we start forgetting that we were ALL new divers at one time or another and we can ALL remember that ONE arrogant diver that made fun of us and made us feel like ****. Do you really want to be that person??? That is just a shame.
This is what I'm talking about, more divers like DOkie is what this sport needs. At least forgetting a few things with only a few dives should be excusable. But there is NO excuse for giving a new diver a complex for being new. You only make yourself look like an @$$!! If you were too give a few tips and words of encouragement the new diver would have been very appreciative and remembered you forever, as that cool dude that helped him out when he was new. Instead, all he remembers is that pompus @$$ that was such a freakin' jerk on probably one of his first cool dive trips. Sometimes, as the experienced diver we need too take into consideration there aprehension and try too set them at ease instead of being the class bully and treating
them like the the class wimp!
Again, KUDOS to you DOkie!!!
Joe