I'm new to this sport. I only started in 1969 using a healthways regulator. I've been an instructor since just after the turn of the century. I've worked in shops, rebuilt more regulators than I could care to count, and have replaced more than my share of hoses. I'm sure that pales in comparison to your experience.
It's not meant to be. It's almost entirely ego driven and relies on fear mongering. They think they know better, but somehow can't be bothered to clue you in their "secret sauce". Some feel that dissing products elevates their standing in the eyes of others. Maybe some are gullible enough to think they are on to something, but there just any substance to their cries of alarm. In the end, the gear produced today is far superior than when I first started diving... even the hoses. Plan on replacing your hoses from time to time. Look for checking in the outer cover, and chuck those that show signs of deterioration. Most diving destinations have hoses available should one decide to fail on a dive. If a hose does start to fizz, check your air and call the dive. If it's a really big leak, like an o-ring failure, kink the hose if possible and call the dive. It can be quite an exciting experience, but in over 50 years of diving, I can't think of a single injury, much less death attributed to a failed hose.
And please, many leaky hoses look just like good hoses. Make a habit of cutting leakers into two pieces. Snip, snip. That will stop anyone from accidentally reusing it.