You may have already thought of this but the process can feel counterintuitive. You need your BC to be HIGHER on your tank - but I think you've figured that out. My top cam band is barely holding on when I situate my BC on my tank. As someone else said, because there are two cam bands it almost doesn't matter where that top one hits.I've lowered the tank as low as I can but it still hits the back of my head.
The other thing is that I'd add a crotch strap. Even when everything is 'in place', if I go upside down or if there is air in my BC (rarely) it can hitch a little higher and I bang my head into it. The crotch strap revolutionized things for me. I recently got an extra BC as a backup and it also has a crotch strap (not a Zena). Having everything stay in place is a game changer for me.