My first drysuit was a compressed neoprene suit. My next two were trilam. My newest is compressed neoprene. I have it and my newest trilam, both.
My opinion(s):
They both trap air. That's why they're called drysuits. LOL But seriously, my opinion is that how well it fits is WAY more important than the material, when it comes to the air inside and how easy or difficult it is to manage. With either type, if it truly fits well, then managing the air inside is pretty much a wash between the two materials choices.
I got a small cut in one of my trilam suits. It was a quick and simple fix to patch it with a piece of suitable material and some Aquaseal. I think the ease of maintenance and repair is much more related to the quality of the suit than the material. A good quality trilam will be easier to maintain and repair that a low quality neo, and vice versa.
Trilam does not stretch (unless it's a stretch trilam...). But, if the suit fits correctly, I don't find that to be a problem.
Trilam does have less inherent thermal protection. So? You wear a little bit more underneath it. And, if it's really warm in the water (and you're really just wearing a drysuit for redundant buoyancy), you can wear (relatively) nothing underneath it, so it is more comfortable than a neo suit. To me, this is an advantage to trilam. You can never make a neo as "cool" as a trilam, but you can always add undergarments to make a trilam as warm as a neo.
A neo suit has a little inherent insulation, so you can wear a little less underneath. But, the material itself is thicker. So, if you compare to wearing a trilam, are you really displacing any less water? I.e. do you really need more lead to be equally warm? I am unconvinced. With my suits, I seem to use about the same amount of lead, regardless. That may make you think "he's probably diving overweighted a lot." I don't believe I am. I have done some dives in my drysuit(s) where I found myself to be underweighted and unable to hold a final safety stop. I added a little lead to fix that. I have never used more than 6 # of lead in any configuration of drysuit combined with double steels or my CCR. (I don't generally dive a single tank in a drysuit)
I have both. I like them both. I use them for slightly different things. But, if I were going to only keep one of them, I would keep the trilam. I think it is more versatile.