I'm celebrating a "milestone" birthday in October (won't say which one) and am going to Bonaire with my husband, a place I've wanted to visit for 30 years since I started diving. I read Dee Scarr's "Touch the Sea" and was committed. But different sites provide vastly different reviews for the same properties and dive operators. I prefer comfortable over luxury, local cuisine over gourmet, and boat dives over shore dives primarily because they're easier and require less walking and physical effort (to satisfy my husband). That's not to say we won't do some beach diving - just don't want it to be "more" diving and not most of it. Based on your experiences, where do we stay?