Regulators are dumb pieces of equipment. They have no brain, and therefore don't know what brand second stages they're feeding. As long as the first stage puts out the pressure the second stage likes, the second stage is happy as a clam. Octos are the same way. Either Aeris octo will work just fine on an Atomic reg. Just make sure that when you buy the Atomic the dealer also sells Aeris products. That way servicing the reg won't present a problem. Personally, between the Gyro and the A1, I'd go with the A1. All you need with an octo is a basic reg that'll get you (or your buddy) to the surface safely.
Remember, Atomic has no warranty on parts, but has a two-year service interval. Aeris has a one-year service interval but parts are free under warranty.