All4scuba05,
Soggy has not disrespected anyone - what he states is that to get to the point of having to do a CESA you have gone through a sequence of events that could have been nipped in the bud earlier through appropriate action from both the potential casualty and his/her buddy. The ole adage Prevention is better than cure has been advocated by many a diver on Scubaboard and elsewhere. The CESA is an option but as NWG has already pointed out it's the last option for reasons NWG has already stated.
If you have a good buddy who is aware and communicates regularly, risk is reduced - if you dive with instabuddies then you assume more risk as you are dealing with an unknown factor. It does not mean that an instabuddy is automatically unsafe just that it's more risky until you are more aware of the diver's ability.
On a 90foot wreck I won't be diving with an instabuddy - the option not to dive is always there. I say all this not to chide or chastise but to point out that you can often shape the way Murphy might strike in most cases before he gets a chance to kick arse. Think of it as cheating Murphy