Using a FFM makes things extremely difficult IMO, but sometimes they are needed. If I was running a FFM I would do it the same way as I posted above, and run the FFM off left post, not the right, using a short hose. Run the reg you will be donating, the long hose reg, off the right post. This is in case of roll offs. I would then wrap the long hose down and behind my head just like I was going to do if I was breathing it. I would then clip it off to my shoulder dring on a break-away connection. I would not add a third second stage.
Are you using comm's that make it necassary to use a FFM? What setup will your buddy be diving?