Just the ones that don’t want to be left down the wreck with the mooring parted.
While you are correct in theory - every diver is ultimately responsible for every aspect of the dive - a logical conclusion from that is that you must only dive from your own boat (even then, you are trusting your topside crew).
If you dive on a charter, that is in essence an act of trust. I have been diving on this boat for years and I have seen firsthand their impeccable safety record and adherence to procedures, . For example, I don't check their emergency O2, their lifejackets, their fuel supply, the state of the captain and crew, the condition of the anchor line, etc... You may have issue with that as well, but that's what I and everyone that I know who dives in our area does. We do make some basic assumptions.
So I'm comfortable making the leap of faith that the crew of this particular boat did a good tie in. Of course, in retrospect, you can find fault with anything, but I do not feel that I now have to be in the habit of checking the tie in on every descent.
I make the assumption that the crew - far more experienced than I - didn't make a mistake that I would have picked up. In this particular case, I have already discussed the error on my part of not picking up on that other diver's communication, but had I gotten there 10 minutes earlier, before the disconnection became apparent, I doubt that I would have caught an error made by the crew member.
Don't get me wrong - checking the tie in is a fine idea. But I don't think that it rises to the level of something like analyzing your gas or checking your SPG in terms of glaring omissions if you don't do it.