midwayman,
It's no big deal to expect your buddy to show you their SPG or communicate remaining PSI in whatever method you decided on. (One or TWO fingers on forearm, more INTERNATIONAL USE and the remaining hundreds by fingers) or flashing in increments of 500 PSI or whatever.
I routinely glance at dive buddy's gauges sometimes even behind them and they didn't even know it.
Mainly to avoid situations like this: I've had people at 90' with 700 PSI and think everything's fine
One friend who is an active instructor has cut short his dives to make sure someone makes it up and maybe does a safety stop along the way.
That's another hated topic as I see people worry about a 3 min. / 15' safety stop for a no-deco dive when they're ABOUT TO RUN OF AIR !!!!!!! How silly what is taught today....
Then again there's more discussion on O2 toxicity and safety stops than better buoyancy, decent swimming skills and more.
As far as all the gas planning talk, I guarantee less than 5% on any sport diving boat do any calculations before hopping in behind the DM.
All divers SHOULD know gas will go faster at 90' versus 40' and to watch their gauges, stay with their buddy and group (such as in Cozumel drift diving) have their own Safety Sausage, whistle and maybe even signal mirror and small light, etc.
Any more complexity is simply too much task loading for newbies plus many who call themselves "experienced".
I've likely commented too much already
But as an old, NOT BOLD diver I am saddened by seeing people NOT enjoy what can be a fun and safe sport.
I don't have all the answers either.......
YMMV
dhaas